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I’m not great with tech. Will I figure this out?

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More Success Stories

“For a long time, I felt overlooked. Here, I found people who appreciate life experience and actually want to talk. It’s been a refreshing change.”

Pedro, 71

"I thought life was all about chores. Now I chat every evening with someone who sends good-morning messages and actually listens to my day."

Linda, 63

“After a long marriage, I had no idea how to meet anyone. Now I’m talking with someone who gets my humor - and my evenings feel fun again.”

Chuck, 59

“I thought life was all about chores. Now I look forward to messages, laughs, and that little spark again.”

Maria, 68


*Disclaimer: Images feature models and are used for illustrative purposes only. Names may have been changed to protect privacy. Results not typical.